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Drama Update

Well, NerdDad’s surgery/recovery was a little more complicated than predicted. He developed pancreatitis and was in the hospital until Sunday. He is home now and doing better but is still having pain. The whole process has been a bit frustrating. Every day the surgeon said maybe he would come home the next day while the nurses seemed much more concerned. It is still better than it could have been. I have recently heard about someone who was in the hospital for a month with pancreatitis so I guess 4 days was nothing.

So we are recovery…slowly. I will be very happy when NerdDad is back to his old self. I once again am grateful that I am not a single parent;). Oh, let me once more brag about my baby! She was at the hospital every day and we even spent the night!

NerdFamily Drama

Well, after I got a stomach bug we assumed that is what NerdDad had when he started puking. We were wrong. This morning NerdDad was having so much pain we went to the ER. He had Gall stones. I say had because he had surgery to get rid of his gall bladder. So after a long day at the hospital I am home and NerdDad is recovering at the hospital. The plan is for him to come home tomorrow. Oh by the way, I have the best 8 week old ever! She had been with me the whole time. We were there from 11am until 9pm and there was minimal crying. How many babies do you know who could do that?

Carnival of Homeschooling #84

(I am sorry for the delay on this Carnival but in addition to my previous excuses (my stomach bug) now NerdDad is throwing up and the Newest Nerdling may also have a little bit too. So have mercy on me;)

Welcome to the 84th edition of the Homeschooling Carnival. This week we are going to look at the carnival through the many reasons that the NerdFamily homeschools. We have many great entries so let us get started!

The first reason is academics. We have the control to dig in as deep as we would like in to each subject. In this many homeschoolers seem to have a never ending supply of great ideas but some do need help and that is why they read these blogs. Seeking Rest in the Ancient Paths does ask Why Finding Curriculum is so Difficult. Kathy at My Quivers Full starts our academic journey with Keeping Preschoolers Busy. Barb at Heart of Harmony offers us a Nature Study for Young People with both her and Charlotte Mason’s tips for nature studies. Lindafay at Highter Up and Further In tells us How We Organize Apologia Notebooks for her highschooler in science. APMFormulators have a cool article on Gilding:Science Fair Idea for Homeschoolers. Suzanne at Adventures in Daily Living has found some great handwriting worksheet generators in Home-Schooling Resource. Remember that academics can include games. Melitsa at Play-Activities talks about this in Childhood Games. Lynn at HSBiz is taking full advantage of all the great academic resources on the internet with Getting Ready For School. Sue at Homeschooling Your Child shares her newest discovery – an excellent resource that lists free online high school courses (including AP classes) and homeschool curriculum. Alasandra has some online sites to learn about Mesoamerican culture. Denise at Let’s Play Math gives us Alex’s Puzzling Papyrus where Math + History = Fun! Learn how the ancient Egyptian scribes did multi-digit multiplication problems without knowing the times tables. Mrs. Happy Housewife gives us 12 weeks of South America Lesson Plans. Karen at The Thomas Institute explains how she came to choose Ray’s Arithmetic for their math study and gave a brief overview of it. Waldorf Our Way gives us Step-Down Reading show how taking a more relaxed approach to reading is removing frustration and helping a non-reader to develop a more positive attitude toward the magic of reading. The Daily Planet gives us The Jewish Camps Essay as part of a WWII study.

Probably second only to academics is homeschooling allows me to raise my kids the way my husband and I want. This is instead of a)the government and b)the other kids. Tiffany at Life on the Road talks about Modest Dress in the 21st Century. I can say this is already an issue I ponder with my 4 year old girl. Dewey’s Treehouse seems to agree with wanting to raise their own kids in their own way in Dr. Friendly Made Us Homeschool.

Another reason I homeschool is I can structure it the way I want. I don’t like being held hostage by the public school’s calendar or teaching philosophy. It is great that you can find whatever works for you or your child. Public School can’t take the needs or goals of the individual into account when deciding on their overall philosophy but we can. It really comes down to finding the structure and timing that works best for your family. For example I have a newborn so I am not homeschooling for any big blocks of time. I also schedule things around church and other kids’ nap times. I look to other homeschoolers for ideas, inspiration and just knowing what worked for them and they definitely have come through this week. Little Acorns Treehouse has a great post with Getting the Teacher Organized where she shows her custom made planner. Summer at Mom is Teaching is Planning for the New Year. Just4HomeschoolFamilies is sharing their plans in Our New School Year. With just my 4 kids I feel I am often losing my mind, can you imagine having 17? Barbara Frank talks about the Duggars newest arrival in Homeschooling a Dozen. I guess if the Duggars can do it I can too;). I guess the key is scheduling and flexibility. All Info About Home Schooling talks about your Ideal Schedule vs. Real Schedule.

It also means you choose what ever type of program works for you be it unschooling, Charlotte Mason, Classical or charters. But first, Lothlorien asks What Kind of Homeschooler are You? Nissa at Renaissance Academy gives us Keeping Charlotte Simple for Our Busy Family. It is part 1 in a series about how she is simplifying a classical/CM approach for her 6 children. The Headmistress at The Common Room talks about Good Clean Dirt and how playing ties into the Charlotte Mason theory. Lynn at Homeschool2.0 Blog tells us 5 Reasons Our Kids are in a Public Homeschool Program.

SeaBird Chronicles gives us Favorites: Parenting Books that include books that help homeschoolers in dealing with and understanding our children better so we can educate them better. Going further in that route is HowToMe’s How to Teach your Auditory Learner to Study (2 of 4). Kim’s Play Place talks about learning styles importance (or lack of) in Learning Styles Panned.

Remember that you are in control of your schedule so if you want to rework it, go for it. That is why a period of reflection each year can be useful. Elisheva at Ragamuffin Studies does just that in Homeschooling Four Seasons. Getting Ahead looks at what they do and tells us Why Homeschooling Works for Them. Unfortunately though, part of doing it your own way means that you have to pay for it. Once you choose That is why I like this post from Dawn at Day by Day Homeschooling on Home Budgeting Help for the Spreadsheet Impaired.

Yet another reason to homeschool is so you have the opportunity to teach your kids skills outside the normal academic skill set. In our house that would be cooking, money issues, etc. Mommy Babble has a great article, Knitting Obsession, on bringing in knitting as another skill. Some of what I want to teach them is to be well rounded and happy. Semicolon talks about the things to include in their days to be complete people in The Rule of Six , or Seven, or Eight, or Ten.

Another reason I like homeschooling is that it is equal opportunity. My kids are part of a large diverse group because anyone can homeschool. This isn’t just for the wealthy or highly degreed or we wouldn’t be able to do it. Deanna at Marcy’s Musings discusses public perception of homeschooling vs. the truth about the tremendous variety we really come in with What are Homeschoolers Really Like? Dana at Principled Discovery is also Playing with Some Homeschool Stereotypes. Though homeschoolers inherently have some share goals and this is often played out at conferences. Consent of the Governed shares such a conference with the Love To Learn Conference.

Yet another reason I homeschool is the politics of the matter and the fact the system doesn’t work. I believe in small government and fiscal responsibility. I believe that I (and many other parents) do a better job with much less money than the current system. The government seems to be quite happy with the way things are and I am not. I believe that homeschooling is the best way to change the overall system. Why Homeschool has a Response to a Comment that seemed to question that. Bending the Twigs looks at the issues of accountability and efficiency in People in Glass Houses. Around here schooling boundaries are an arbitrary, bureaucratic and a very big deal, Clovis Unified vs. Fresno, which elementary school, etc. Well Life Without School talks about boundaries in public and homeschools in No Boundaries. Po Moyemu–In My Opinion talks about Albemarle’s Home Instruction Policy Manual. This is not merely a local issue, but addresses issues of accountability, understanding the law, and defining “educational progress.”

All my reasons add up to a theme I want for my children’s lives which is a love a learning. Katherine at No Fighting, No Biting! shows this well with School Supplies. Another example of a life of learning is illustrated with Sebastian’s at Percival Blakeney Academy offering of Field Trip to Athens.

There are also always more reasons and Just Enough and Nothing More shares some of these in 5 Homeschooling Secrets.

Of course, when you are in charge of your child’s academic future it is normal to have some feelings of inadequacy. Annette at Homeschooling Journey shares her experience dealing with the holes in her education in Homeschooling Teens.

But in all this remember, homeschooling is personal choice and shouldn’t be forced upon anyone. Not to say marriage isn’t a negotiation. Notes From a Homeschooling Mom talks about this in How Do I Get My Wife to Homeschool our Kids?

The final reason to homeschool is to produce productive adults (who might even homeschool their kids;) who are smarter than me. Elizabeth at Little Cottage in the Northwoods appears to be just that in Reflections of a Homeschooled Girl. After reading a Wall Street Journal column about small business and corporate culture and the hiring process, ChristineM at The Thinking Mother wonders if our homeschooled independent thinkers will be able to land a job when they are adults in Adult Workers and Clones. Home Spun Juggling talks about those moments when our goal starts becoming reality and the kids start knowing things we don’t in Home Spun Comic Strip #119.

Now, separate from all this, homeschoolers are very generous people and we have a couple of posts that prove it! Summer at Mom is Teaching asks How Many Homeschool Supplies Could You Get For $300? 3 of the people who leave a comment on one of the network sites will win some money to find out. Megan at Imaginif…child protection became Serious Business tells us to Enter to win a set of five Aussie Animal Finger Puppets!

That brings us to an end of this week’s Carnival. Next week Dewey’s Treehouse will be hosting and you can go here to get all the details on submitting an article. Remember all opinions expressed here are mine and not necessarily an contributers. So go read and comment!

Carnival of Homeschooling is Coming!

Just a quick note to let you know that the Carnival is on its way. Stomach bugs and nursing take a lot of time out of blogging so it isn’t going to be up as early as I hoped. It will be up today (Tuesday) just not quite yet!

There are countless great entries. Ok, so I counted them but they are numerous and good so come back and check them out!

Pregnancy Carnival

Hi everyone! Here is the latest edition of the Pregnancy Carnival. I don’t have any cute themes but so great articles none the less. Let us jump right in!

As always we are looking for ways to deal with pregnancy, its symptoms and its chaos. Mommin’ It Up shares her own chaos and life in Days of Chunder. Patricia Hughes at More4Kids gives us Stress Relief Tips During Pregnancy. Emmahoney.com asks “Why Exercise During Pregnancy?“. Busy Bee Mama tells us How to Go from Overwhelmed to Productive. Momat35 shares what she has learned from her experiences in How Pregnancy Influenced My Career and Ambition.

In the preparation for baby category we have some good entries. PotPieGirl at Unusual Baby Boy Names provides us with a list of Baby Naming Tips. I Love the Beach tells us How To Make A Beach Baby Nursery. Biotunes.org asks “Is the triple screen for Down Syndrome right for you?”. APMFormulators says that Obstetricans have no Idea what non-medicalized Birth is.

Next we have a couple of post birth issues. Rebuild from Depression gives us Breastfeeding Diet: Vitamin D and Iron in New Moms. BustWithAttitude.com provides us with one of our raciest entries (yet needed for some) with Sexy Plus-Size Nursing Bra.

You have to have a little pregnancy politics to finish your day. Phil for Humanity gives us Abortion: Religion versus Practicality versus Morality. Two Babes and a Brain offer us OH…What the Hell… about NYC hospitals ban on freebie formula.

This wraps up this edition of the Pregnancy Carnival. If you might be interested in hosting the Pregnancy Carnival please email me at mom@nerdfamily.com. If you want to submit a piece for the next edition please go to BlogCarnival and fill out the form!

WFMW: Parenting Advice

The Works For Me Wednesday subject this week is Parenting Advice. While of course I have lots of advice I had to figure out the most poignant and needed piece. The most important thing is to pray but the next part is to invest in your marriage. Remember, while the world seems to revolve around you blessed little rugrats, you and your husband were a family all on your own. This means always show a unified front. And yes, if you are picking sides it is always Mom and Dad against the kids. Studies show that kids are more secure if their parents have a strong marriage. Ways to do this…

Have a daily conference time with your spouse. Mine and NerdDad’s is after he gets home and changes. Then while we put the finishing touches on dinner we talk. Kids have to entertain themselves or play in their rooms. This isn’t a time for deep relationship issues but just updating each other on the goings on in life. It doesn’t just have to be about the kids. This is often when we talk about news from our friends, who won the board game at DH’s work at lunch, or headlines in the news. Another thing is follow through on punishing kids for going behind a parents back. You know, kid asks one parent and that parent says no so they go in the other room and ask the other. Also respect your spouse and demand that your kids do too. There have been times when a child will talk back to one of us. Often the other parent will step in and make it clear it isn’t acceptable to treat their parent that way. Also, if something is important to your spouse but not you, make it important any way. This is a great way to teach your kids to respect a parent. An example, I have a friend who doesn’t mind if her kids go from project to project, leaving things out, as long as they clean up once a day. That drives her husband up the wall. So she has made it clear that the kids need to clean up after they finish each thing.

Remember your spouse is the only person you can count on in this adventure of raising kids. Also, when the kids grow up and leave (which they will someday) you are going to be all alone again so build, build, build.

Stretch Marks No More?

So I was reading Child Magazine the other day and I saw some interesting (and odd) news. First, apparently some people get laser treatment to reduce post-baby stretch marks. Secondly, there is now a new procedure, plasma skin regeneration, that is a treatment out there to rid us of our stretch marks. Supposedly there can be up to 60% reduction after 3 or 4 sessions. Interesting… I don’t know if I would ever do it but interesting.

Dumb Statements

File this one under things not to say to your husband. While watching this week’s Dr. Who NerdDad asked why William Shakespeare is always played by a guy who looks like Kenneth Branagh. To which I responded, “Because he is hot”. I might want to reintroduce my brain to the filter;). In reality we had a good laugh and I turned bright red.